Cal Newport’s “Deep Work,” “Study Hacks” Blog, and On Quitting Social Media

Find out about a must-read book, a must-read blog, and a must-watch TED Talk by Georgetown University Associate Professor of Computer Science Cal Newport, all in one handy post at his Study Hacks Blog, “Quit Social Media.”

What Newport says in that post is provocative– undoubtedly just the title will rub many people’s fur the wrong way, and no surprise, it already has many commenters a-huffing & puffing. 

Here is my comment on Cal Newport’s post:

Thank you for this blog, for your TED Talk, and for your books, especially Deep Work. I am a writer with 2 finance books published under another name, plus 4 literary books, plus an anthology– all of which is to say, I understand the nature and immense benefits of deep work. 

But dealing with the Internet… that has been a challenge for me over the past several years, and especially when all these shiny new social media toys seemed to be so necessary and (apparently) effective for promoting one’s books. Every publicist, marketing staff, my fellow writers, all seem slaves now to social media. I can assure you, every writers conference has a panel on book PR and social media. 

For a while, at the enthusiastic urging of one of my writer-friends (by the way, a best-selling and very fine historical novelist), I maintained a Facebook page, but when I realized what a time-suck it was, and how FB made it intentionally and so deviously addictive, I deactivated my account. I had also come to recognize that people addicted to FB, as seemed to be not all but most of my “FB friends,” often as they might “like” and comment on my posts there, are probably not my readers. (My books require sustained focus; I admit, they can be challenging.) I deactivated my FB more than a year ago, and I breathe a sigh of relief about it every blessed day.  

As for your book, Deep Work, much of what you say was already familiar to me from my own experience as a writer, but I appreciated the reminders, especially in light of these contemporary challenges to sustaining focus. What was especially interesting and intriguing to me was the new cognitive research you mention. Next time I teach a writing workshop you can be sure that Deep Work will be on the syllabus.

Do I miss interacting with friends and family on FB? Yes, but now I have more time for higher quality interpersonal interactions, such as, say, emails, telephone conversations, and–Land o’ Goshen!!– actually getting together in person.

However, for the record, I’m not (yet) giving up the three social media tools I still use, LinkedIn, Twitter and YouTube, because:

(1) With LinkedIn and Twitter I appreciate having a way to contact certain individuals when email is not a workable option (nieces and nephews, you know who you are!);  

(2) I appreciate the broadcast opportunity, modest as it is. Check out my YouTube channel here. As for Linked In and Twitter, usually I just zip in to tweet a blog post or a podcast, then out, and not every day;

UPDATE: Twitter, meh. Now, with the rarest of exceptions, I tweet once a month, as a courtesy to the authors who do a Q & A for Madam Mayo blog.

UPDATE Sept 2021: The world would be a better place without Twitter. As for YouTube, it has a lot to answer for its ham-handed censorship in 2020-2021. My channel is still there only because it hasn’t been a priority for me at this time to move the content to another platform.

(3) I turned off their notifications; 

(4) I do not find these services addictive, as I did Facebook, hence, I am not tempted to constantly check them. 

In sum, for me– and of course, this might be different for you– at this time– and no guarantees for the future– the benefits of maintaining my LinkedIn, Twitter, and YouTube accounts outweigh the costs. 

SPEAKING OF COSTS

Speaking of costs, one of the vital arguments Cal Newport makes in Deep Work is that pointing out the benefits of utilizing any given social media tool is not enough; one must also take into full account its opportunity costs in your actual practice. Oftentimes these costs are devastating. But fear of “missing out,” fear of admitting that one could have done so much better than to have spent weeks, months, even years of precious hours agog at mindless trivia– in short, the fear and pride behind cognitive dissonance– make many otherwise highly intelligent people blind to this simplest of common-sense arguments. 

>> Speaking of cognitive dissonance, I have plenty to say about that in my wiggiest book review yet.

DOES “SOCIAL MEDIA” INCLUDE BLOGS?

One question that popped up in the comments there at Study Hacks blog was about the definition of “social media”: Does it include blogs? Ironically, since he publishes comments and on occasion responds to them, I consider Cal Newport’s “Study Hacks Blog” to be social media. I do not consider this blog,  “Madam Mayo,” to be “social media,” however, because an eon ago I closed the comments section. 

That said, dear thoughtful and civilized reader, your comments via email are always welcome. I invite you to write to me here.

P.S. My recommended reading lists for my writing workshops are here. You will find Cal Newport’s excellent Deep Work on my list of works on Creative Process. And you can read my review of Cal Newport’s earlier book, So Good They Can’t Ignore You, here.

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Adios, Facebook! The Six Reasons Why I Deactivated My Account

I have been on Facebook since 2008, back when I was about to start the tour for my novel The Last Prince of the Mexican Empire. It was my amiga the crackerjack historical novelist Sandra Gulland who urged me to sign up. No question, Sandra was right, FB is a powerful way to get the word out about my bookspodcastslectures, workshops and book signings

The now deactivated Facebook page (If you find another C.M. Mayo on FB that would not be me)

Plus, FB has been an unexpected pleasure: I could keep up with family, both close and distant, and friends, new, old and previously long-lost. I smiled wide to see photos of a relative’s 80th, jokes and memes posted by cousins and neighbors, videos of the antics of one of my old book editor’s puppies, and so on. 

In that torrent of FB feed arrived many treasures too, such as artist Hope Swann’s daily door picture; gorgeous paintings by other artist friends including Mariló Carral, Kelley Vandiver and Edgar Soberon; a video—  I forget who “shared it”—  of a 90 year old yoga teacher; links to read about fascinating books; political news in Mexico and abroad which I might have missed otherwise; news of a dear friend’s book prize (yay, Leslie Pietrzyk!!); and oodles more. 

I am grateful to FB for providing this platform, and grateful to my FB friends (and friends of friends) who have helped make it such a richly interesting experience. (And muchas gracias, Mikel Miller, for recently forming the Mexico writers group on FB and so energetically championing my writing there—and including a chapter from my book on Baja California in your Kindle anthology, Mexico: Sunlight & Shadows.)

In sum, as many of you well know, there are excellent reasons to participate on FB. Nonetheless, after months of dithering, I deactivated my account

Here’s why:

1. I find it increasingly unsettling that a corporation not only mediates my interactions with my friends and family but also shapes them by its algorithms, then harvests and sells the data on those interactions to third parties. (Translation: it’s looking a mite too 1984.)

2. Not all, certainly, but much of the FB feed is trivia—(I love you, N., but I don’t need to see the sandwich you ate yesterday in Barcelona)— or upsetting (I agree with you, J., that animal abusers should be punished, but I’d rather not have been slammed with the photos). Some of the FB feed is assuredly not trivia— the passing of a beloved grandfather, the birth of a baby, a child’s graduation, the adventure of a lifetime— but because of FB’s algorithms, posts are broadcast to “friends” its bots deem relevant, and it can become so. I mean, if S. didn’t invite me to her birthday party, why did she imagine I would want to see a photo of her blowing out her birthday candles?

(I’ll admit, maybe I never “got” FB in this regard; I rarely posted anything from my personal life. In the real, meatspace world, social networks are intricately nuanced; FB, for all its “groups” and feed settings and ever-morphing privacy options, turns it into a one-size-fits-all spew. Adding nuance: I guess that’s what the algorithm engineers will be working on from the dawn of FB ’til Kingdom Come.)

3. FB is annoyingly addictive, albeit for some people more than others. For me, staying off FB like trying to diet with an open box of chocolates at arm’s reach.

UPDATE: And it’s addictive by design, of course. It’s all about hooking your brain into the machine zone. 

4. If I’m going to get this out the door before I’m 94, I need more time and mental energy to finish writing my book about Far West Texas.

> Yo! Checkout the latest podcast, my interview with rodeo barrel racer Lisa Fernandes!

5. As far as book promotion goes, FB isn’t the “wow” it first seemed (especially after, for reasons known only to itself, FB changed its algorithms). Furthermore, although many of my readers are on FB, many are not, or don’t follow me there. Yes, one can create author and book “fan pages,” but that is a form of “sharecropping”— after all, FB owns the digital platform— with all the attendant disadvantages for the sharecropper. (My current philosophy: “Likes” on FB are given so promiscuously, they don’t mean much, if anything. From my own platform, that is, my website, true fans of my work, legion or scant may they be, are always welcome to subscribe to my newsletter.) Moreover! As noted above, FB sucks up time and energy that I could apply elsewhere to better effect. (In case you were wondering, for book promotion, apart from writing the next book, that would include blogging, sending out that newsletter, freelancing for magazines, podcasting, an occasional postcard campaign, and… drumroll… answering ye olde email.)

UPDATE: Speaking of “sharecropping, yes indeed, this blog is sharecropping on Google’s platform. It has been on my to do list for an age to move the whole enchilada over to WordPress. Stay tuned.

UPDATE, January 2019: Dear writerly reader, you are now reading this blog on self-hosted WordPress. Viva!

6. Though I will miss the casual interactions of “liking” and “sharing” on FB, I prefer to meet friends, family and colleagues in person, that is, on our terms, not FB’s, and also to talk on the phone or by Skype, and… more drums… answer my email. 

Speaking of email: friends, family, students, readers: I am sincerely happy to hear from you! As always, you can write to me at cmmayo (at) cmmayo (dot) com. And now that I’m free of Facebook, I shall be able to answer you in a more thoughtful and timely manner.

And of course, I welcome your comments on this blog.

As ever, I blog on Mondays.

P.S. To deactivate a FB account, log in, then go to “settings,” then “security,” then click on “deactivate your account.” Oh, but FB doesn’t let you go that easily! The whole ooey-gooey-extra-velcroey process made me shake my head and laugh out loud several times. By the way, this is not the same action as deleting the account. I can imagine that I might need to log on again in order to contact someone whom I couldn’t contact otherwise, or possibly, for some other very good reason. But to participate as I did before? Definitely not.

UPDATE: Yet another reason to deactivate FB. 

FURTHER UPDATE: November 2017. Still massively relieved to have deactivated FB. In case you were wondering. But still have not yet moved this blog over to WordPress… It will happen.

YET ANOTHER UPDATE: 2018:  See novelist Nancy Peacock’s blog post, “Quitting Social Media.” 

YE VERILY ANOTHER UPDATE, JULY 2018: Jaron Lanier’s Ten Arguments for Deleting Your Social media Accounts Right Now.

JULY 2018: A nonprofit’s take on FB.

UPDATE, JANUARY 2019: Now the battle is against Whatsapp. I wonder what’s next?

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